For
most of us we share our living space with others. Not all living
partners share the same standard of living cleanliness as the people they live
with. I never realized that I was indeed
raised with a clean paranoia until I began living with other boys my age. In a dorm with five other boys, we have a
wide range of standard of “clean”. One roommate
never has dirty dishes as he washes his dishes and puts them away immediately
following his meal. Another roommate
will leave his dished until Sunday and do them all at the same time. As a precaution, I only brought one bowl and
one plate so that I am not able to continue eating without washing my
dishes. This is helpful for me because
it never allows me to have more than two dirty dishes. There are times that I walk into only to be
sabotaged by an unsightly sink filled to its capacity with dirty dishes. This is frustrating because having that many
dishes in the sink makes it hard to clean your own dishes. In addition, when occationally a female enters
the dorm, I like to exhibit a sense of my cleanliness. More than once I have had a girl tell me that
she was “grossed out” by the filthiness of my dorm.
I've run into the same problem in my dorm room! It is definitely a huge adjustment living with those who have a different definition of "clean" than you.
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